So, as I mentioned in my last post, some crazy person sent in a “credible threat” to schools in my area, threatening to behead elementary school children. As a result, my anxiety and agoraphobia have started to spiral out of control. Yesterday, I spent the entire day locked in my house with my two year old and my four year old instead of sending them to school. Anyone who has done that before knows that it’s not good for one’s sanity. I was so scared that I didn’t even open a window.
Today, I had to leave the house to go to my weekly therapy session. It wasn’t until mid-morning and we get up early around here, plus we were running out of staples like bread, milk, juice, and junk food, so I figured the girls and I would run to Target in the morning before I dropped them at my mom’s house and went to therapy. Only….while showering, I started picturing all of the horrible things that could happen if I took my girls out in public. Mass shootings. Hostage situations. So, we just went to my mother’s and I went to therapy. While there, we discussed my big anxieties and decided to move to Plan B (as we’ve been calling it). So, next week I will start EMDR again. Honestly, it freaks me out. I’ve done it exactly once and started out thinking it was silly. My therapist waving her fingers in front of my face, having me think about things that bother me. But, then, something actually happened. My mind equated the powerlessness of the psychiatric ward with an earlier trauma. It was painful and hard, but it actually did move me toward not feeling as trapped by my diagnosis and my time in the hospital. But, now I need to do it again, and I am worried about what else it will bring up for me. Either way, the idea is that while I’m home with the girls, I should try taking small steps to leave the house, so none of us are trapped here.
After therapy, I brought them to the supermarket. I was so anxious and terrified. I imagined every person we passed as a threat. Well, except the little old lady who couldn’t reach the canned tomatoes. After we checked out, I practically ran to my car, loaded the girls and the bags of groceries, and slammed the lock button. By the time we got home, I needed to run to the bathroom and throw up before I could put away the groceries.
I can not wait for a time when I can grocery shop, or go to the library, or the playground, or my kids’ school, without these kinds of reactions.