Yesterday was Halloween. The girls had a party at their preschool, including a performance for parents at 2pm, followed by a party and trick-or-treating at Grandma’s (my mother’s) house. The girls had a great day! Their performance at school was adorable, and very well attended. It was incredibly crowded with parents all smooshed into the infant room to see the show. My girls did a great job singing their Halloween and Autumn songs. I did a great job making small talk with other parents, sitting in a crowded room of strangers, smiling, and not having a hint of a panic attack! Our success continued at the family Halloween party, where the girls, despite a massive amount of sugar and very little real food throughout the day, played nicely with their cousins, said “Thank you” at every house we trick-or-treated, and were super adorable superheroes. I also played nicely with my cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, siblings, and mom! Everyone had a good time and I did not have to leave the party early in order to escape the craziness that a large family and lots of children and opinions will create.
I do not know why I seem to be in a lull for anxiety, but I am glad that I am. I’ve been working very hard with my therapist on connecting the logical side of my brain to the emotional side. Mainly the idea is to get the logical part of me to be able to pull the reins in on the part of me that panics over things that aren’t necessarily panic-provoking to most people. I don’t know if it’s the exercise that I’ve been doing (Thank you Fitbit for motivating me!), the EMDR that my therapist and I have been doing, or just a natural ebb of anxiety. I don’t know if the rising tide of the anxiety and depression will drown me in the future, but I am thankful for how I’m feeling right now. Today I feel confident that I can go to work and interact with people pleasantly and have a great time. That makes me feel so good about myself. It’s small, but it feels great!